Sooooooo, I am not feeling particularly sexy these days.
Possible causes:
I've been trying something different with my hair (more au naturale: see here) -which may or may not be contributing to my confusion. I'm also trying to get rid of these last 10 pounds of baby weight - which has its good and bad days. AND - during a spring cleaning effort, I ended up giving a good friend of mine a lot of things I can no longer fit into. Seeing her in clothes from my "skinnier days" has a special kind of blow to my ego. And to top it all off, someone asked me at a little soiree I was throwing if one of my friends was my DAUGHTER. really? WHAT. THE. HELL??! (excuse my french). I thought I was going to spit (i know, not very lady-like)!! Now in my defense, I was dressed like FLOTUS and my friend was dressed like she was going clamming. But still.
I thought you were supposed to feel more confident in your thirties (more emotionally stable, aware, comfortable in your skin)?? Your thoughts here?
So in addition to the battle of the baby bulge. I've got an additional mission. Bringing Sexy Back. From the inside out. Lets face it. Its important. Well it is to me anyway. Not necessarily for other people to tell me that I'm sexy. But just to feel it. SEXY is a feeling.
Kevin Hart (Yes, I said Kevin Hart) recently said, When you look good, you feel good. And when you feel good, you do AMAZING THINGS. And I plan to do AMAZING THINGS.Sadly, I will admit that although I stopped nursing little h about 5 months ago.. I'm still wearing my maternity bras (and underwear). H said he'd like me to step up my game once the little one turned a year old. I think thats my cue.
So I'm looking for some everyday (attractive, cute, sexy, AFFORDABLE) underwear. I found these 50's era little skivvies
And on Sexy: What do you do that makes you feel sexy (a particular perfume, moisturizer, affirmations)???
xx,
Bunnie
